As with most things in life, a little effort can go a long way and this is true for mature dating and networking. The tips below will give you a head start on how to get the most from your 50and membership, meet the people you are interested in and have a better chance at successful over 50 dating. If you decide to meet, always meet in a busy place with other people around, like a cafe, bar, restaurant or mall. DON'T EVER arrange to meet someone at your house the first time you meet, and don't take someone back to your house until you feel very sure about them. Always keep a positive attitude. Try to create a descriptive and positive profile. Be clear about what you are looking for. Always be honest. Have a good, recent photo of yourself on your profile. Don't be afraid to initiate contact. Put time and effort into all messages. Be interested and interesting. Date people that YOU are attracted to. Always have fun. Relax and be yourself. Don't try to rush a relationship. Don't be afraid to compliment people. Always be upfront about your intentions - if you aren't interested or don't want to see someone again, let them know, don't keep their hopes up.