As a Loveawake member you are allowed to have a profile, look for other Oss singles, upload photos and get instant messages from others. There's also a function where you can 'wink' online with Dutch people that you are interested in. You can get additional instructions in the Help/FAQ area. There are a lot of things in that section that can answer your questions and concerns. When you click on an inquiry, a box pops up with the answer. As a Doublelist or Leolist site we also allowed to use instant messaging. You have to make sure that singles are accepting this feature from you. They may only accept them from Oss people that are listed in their favorites. If you want to be added, you have to request it from them. On the front page, you will find several M4W and W4M profiles with photos. When you click on the profile, you will find a detailed description. In order to get more Oss profiles, you can sign up for free membership on the site. You will also find their photo on the profile. Loveawake works to bring Dutch people together for dating and friendship purposes and offers a great alternative to Doublelist site. In addition to that, we work to hook up those with similar interests in general. The relationship could possible work out better if the two had a common interest.