“Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend to them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster, and do so with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again.”
- Og Mandino
I believe in treating people with the same honesty, integrity and sincerity that we would expect for ourselves. I'm blunt and very straight forward. I have no tolerance for games and lies. Life is too short for all the extra drama I work hard, fight for those I love and know how to kick back and enjoy myself.
I'm not looking for a short-term relationship, not looking to be someone's sugar momma and not looking to get stuck in the middle of any games. (meaning: if you're talking to, dating, sleeping with, in a relationship with, or married to someone, you have no business talking to me.) How about showing enough integrity to finish the situation you're in before starting something else??
I am a true blue fruit fly. I absolutely love my gay men....they are my best friends and my family. So if you're a bigot or even have one homophobic bone in your body...I'm not the right person for you. Great thing about gay men is....you know I'll never be involved in anything inappropriate with them. I get along better with men, and this works out perfectly because I know there is never an ulterior motive for them wanting to spend time with me.
I'm happy where I am in life. Having someone to share it with would be nice....but I will not forfeit my standards and beliefs in order to settle for something less than what I know I deserve. The one that can bring out the best in me without ever asking it of me. The kind of man that inspires you to want to be a better person....not for them, but just because you know you're that much better with them and their belief in you.