If you write me and do not use my name, I will delete your letter without reading it. You do not deserve my time. If in your letter, you ask me what I do in my spare time or weekends, you have not read my profile entirely, so I will delete your letter after reading it. I am not pompous, but relationships are all in the details, every human being shares common experiences, but what us different are in the details.
Athletic motivated driven mature man likes to work and play hard. I have a good sense of humor, read and am interested in current events around the world. I embrace new technologies easily. I am sensitive, but when I feel I am misled or deceived, I can be very cross. I am an early riser to each day, and try to plan ahead for work and recreation.
Currently, I am working 2 full time jobs, plus another nearly full-time job and that includes most weekends, so don't ask me what I do with my free time, as I have none. I am a sports official for soccer, volleyball, softball and baseball. I also work manufacturing parts as a engineer.
If I respond to you or even look at your letter(s) that definitely means that I am interested. The more you write about yourself in your profile and in your letters, to me personally, the more I can learn about you as a person and a match. My time is valuable as is yours. You will catch my attention with humor, inquisitiveness and lengthy, honest descriptions about yourself, your desires from a partner and what you want to make out of your life. I am more interested in someone who can and wants to work and share their free time, rather than someone who does not want to work and be only a homebody.
Even, when I take some time off, it is to mountain bike or ski or play tennis, not to sit around and read long novels in the sun by the pool.
My ideal partner is : Smart, funny, woman not afraid to work, sometimes impish, sometimes serious, sometimes mysterious. A woman not afraid to explore and share your emotional and other energy and enthusiasm with her partner.
She must not be afraid to talk about herself initially, her daily life, her professional life, her desires, and goals.
