I am a somewhat complex person, simultaneously introverted and extroverted in different ways.“Such a nice young man. And, so tall!” to a certain quavering-voiced old-folks demographic.If they only knew the real me! Actually, that is true, and part of who I am, but I have a funny, irreverent, excitable side that is pretty easy for the right person to draw out. Possibly a bit shy at first, but with interesting facets and layers to be discovered. Laid-back, a bit goofy, but also ironic and focused. Bemused analytical.I think I am pretty happy in my life, single or attached.Isometimes wonder if being too easily self-entertained can lead to a lack of a certain impetus. Life is great, but..But I have reached a point where I am wanting more: more substance, deeper answers to life's deeper questions, greater stability and foundation. A special someone to share my life with. Just...more seeking friendship first, hopefully leading to the “more” -- a serious relationship, with someone who is bright, witty, interesting, and compassionate.I am not looking for some mythical Perfect Match who parallels my own interests (though some overlap is nice); it is more that she should have interests of her own. An inwardly intense woman, with her own thoughts, ideas, and beliefs, is so much more attractive than a cookie-cutter personality! Interests centered around family and friends definitely count. Braininess and liveliness are treasured.if you are intrested then you can send me an email with you personal emaill address and i will get back to you as soon as possible.