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I have a very creative mind and I need witty banter, deep and lively conversations and lots of passion...about life, love, humanity, art and food. (I think food, good food IS art so I might be redundant, here.)

I like people who think for themselves and have strong opinions. (Not hateful and judgy.) But I believe you should have things you would die on the sword for.

I have come to understand that we are 100% responsible for our own lives and just about everything that happens in it. I also believe there is no such thing as stagnation...we are either improving or diminishing...this can be your health, your relationship, your LIFE. So I am pretty much, continually working on becoming a better person, friend, artist lover cook. Those are two of my tenets that I would die on that aforementioned sword for.

Not the most outdoorsy person you will meet. ( A lot of men on here are VERY outdoorsy., which is fine but we're probably not gonna be a match) I like walls, what can I say Kidding! I like the outdoors but I LOVE museums, dancing, theaters, places where you can cook, which I love to do and they usually have walls. I do love the beach, walking/hiking...ummm that's about it for the outdoors. (Here is where I lose half the women, good thing I only want one!)

I am very upbeat, cheerful but with somewhat of an edge, happy person..I think confidence is SEXY. I love people and life more than anything. As my life gets better everyday so does the chasm where there is no partner to share it with. This is where you come in!

I'm REALLY good at making you laugh, at communicating, at cooking. I am great at entertaining . I am really good at knowing what needs to be done and doing it. Wickedly perceptive. I am also really good at being the bigger person, which quite honestly, sometimes sucks...but when you take responsibility for things, you kind of just have to...there's that damn sword, again.