I am a bit of an old fashioned girl with old fashioned values, love my 2 kids, my family and my animals, at times am way too busy and often work too hard, don't like letting people down, or seeing someone sad, value honesty and integrity and cannot stand people who pretend to be something they are not.
My interests are widely varied, I enjoy reading and sometimes writing, watching movies, eating chocolate and taking pics, feel at ease in nature (but kill indoor plants), love the smell of the ocean, fishing from a boat and sitting around a camp fire. I've been a Scout leader for more than a decade, have 3 cats and a dog, really enjoy Friday nights with the girls, want to travel, and the list goes on.
Mostly I'm a happy positive person with a twist of Python.
I work hard but am quite happy doing nothing at all when the opportunity presents.
I have a good sense of humour and a good sense of reality, like spending time with people, not too keen on crowds and also appreciate time alone can be gregarious and out going but at times am more reserved or subdued.
I work in the city but live in a rural setting - like most of us I can be a contradiction.
Summing yourself up in a line or two is ridiculousy hard!
I feel very strongly about the following:-
I do not like anyone who feels the need to manipulate, bully or control, if you do not value a person for who they are then move on until you are happy with the person you meet, no one has the right to expect someone else to change their nature or values.
No one has the right to rob someone else of their idendity in order to make them selves feel more important.
A relationship of any nature is with out value if one person steals the self esteem of another!
I am not an incredible beauty but not paperbag material either.
If you are looking for friendship please drop me a line, if you are looking for a relationship how about starting with friendship and see what transpires - if I have learned nothing else it is that whith out a solid foundation of mutual friendship and respect a relationship is doomed to failure.
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