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Examples of How to Introduce Yourself on Online Dating Sites
By
Michele Meleen, M.S.Ed.
PUBLISHED AUGUST 7, 2018
Woman on online dating site
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You've created a dating profile and found a few people with potential, now what? It's time to let your personality shine through in a winning first message. If you're not sure how to introduce yourself on a dating site or app, try out these fun options.
Basic First Message Examples
Just as you would introduce yourself to someone in real life, start with a form of "hello" and the short version of why you're reaching out.
Hey there, stranger, wanna become acquaintances?
Bonjour/Ciao/Hola, I see you're free to travel the world, but are you free to chat Hello, it's nice to virtually meet you! (Insert handshake or high five emoji.)
Hi, are you up for the challenge of communicating awkwardly through text?
What's up? If you're interested in chatting message back with the answer to this question. (Include a simple question that requires them to read your profile such as "What's my favorite color?")
Messages That Emphasize Similarities
Your similarities are the things you can bond over from the start of any type of relationship. Find a creative way to incorporate something you both like into your first message to show you've paid attention to who they are.
Looks like we're the only two people in the world with a passion for narwhal conservation, maybe we should team up and talk strategy?
Hello fellow Dodgers fan. Did you catch that play last night?
I just finished reading The President Is Missing too! Did you see that ending coming?
I can't believe I found another person who's been to Chincoteague Island! What was your favorite place to explore?
Is it creepy or cool that we're wearing the same t-shirt in our profile pictures?
Leading With a Question
Start the conversation off with an active request that includes a general interest question. Look for topics the other person is interested in on their profile, then come up with a fun question to break the ice.
After reading your profile, I'm dying to know - which actor was your favorite Batman?
I'm new to online dating, any tips on how to start up a conversation?
Sending this message is the most spontaneous thing I've ever done. What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?
They say a picture's worth a thousand words; what would your profile picture say if it could talk?
