My unconscious mind is driven most by peace. I feel a level of comfort with myself and with my surroundings. While I want to be comfortable and have nice things, ambition and financial gain aren't the things that drive me most. I'm more likely lead by a desire to live by my own high personal standards and moral code.
My concept of reality is highly similar to that of others but not the exact match. My perception seem to fall in between those who create their own unique realities and those who posses more mainstream perspectives. Because I straddle that middle ground of being in agreement with others and having my own opinions of the world, I could be both a follower and a leader, follower in the sense that I don't have trouble going along with the group most times since others' ideas will usually seem rational to me, a leader because my creative points may sometimes allow me to guide others in new directions. The difficulty about me is that at times I feel pulled between taking popular viewpoint and accepting my own vision of what is right. Because my concept of reality is rarely off the deep end, I can generally feel confident that there's something valid in my perspectives. Even if others don't always share my views, I try not to let the masses talk me out of them.
I'm reasonably flexible in thinking and opinions. When dealing with most topics, I could easily consider other people's views. However, if a conversation centers on one of my core values, I'm typically more reluctant to entertain other ways of thinking. After all, it's good to have strong opinions on issues of importance.
I'm certainly capable of fantasizing and may even enjoy keeping myself entertained that way. I have the nice balance of having the gift of fantasy at my disposal without having the tendency to overly rely on it. When it comes to fantasy, I typically use it, but don't abuse it.
My relationships are complex things. One important aspect affecting all of them is the role that I play when interacting with others. I appear to have a balanced approached to interacting. I'm not consistently the one who is active or passive. Relative to other people, I try to either be sensitive to the needs of a particular situation or the people with whom I'm dealing. By being able to adjust my approach depending on how the others are behaving, I could handle most situations with ease. My friends see me as a great listener or a savvy communicator because of my gift for reading people.
