margarasinju

You are fat say so in a way that is positive and not apologetic. There are quite literally millions of people that are attracted to each and every body shape and personality type. Your goal should not be to win over people that aren't naturally attracted to your type because they will never fully appreciate or enjoy you. Instead positively and accurately communicate who you really are so the people that are looking for your exact type will realize that they have found you. It is one of the most satisfying feelings in the world to be loved for just being yourself.

Write with personal warmth as if you are talking directly to a real person (because you are).

Include your values and opinions in a positive way. Strong opinions will tell people a lot about you. Those that disagree may pass you by but those that agree with you may feel attracted to a kindred spirit. Be careful not to express those opinions in a way that makes you appear insensitive, disrespectful or intolerant. A know-it-all is no fun for anyone.