Finished twenty years in the Army, Military retired, with pension. I've been told I'm very handsome, and have dated many beautiful women, but find them many times to be empty on the inside. Looking first for friendship am more concerned with a woman's inner beauty, I find that a woman far more attractive who is inwardly beautiful, then outwardly. I've met women who were plan in their looks, but so beautiful. I do not care for phony women, vein, so into their looks. I've met beautiful women in all weight classes, and ugly women in all weight classes. It depends on the woman. Its best I get to know them as friends, Sex is only good with the right woman, otherwise, its just sex and empty and meaningless, and in most cases overrated. You can not build a relationship on sex. It will fail, although with the right person it's great, but not the bases of a relationship. what happens when it gets old, do you just sit there and look at each other? You have to have the same likes, the same personality type,. Like to do the same things, talk about the same topics, be, good, honest, clean, respectful, thoughtful, church going, funny, a bit silly, fun loving in a clean way, not a drunk, no drugs. Decent.