loe

Suffice to say my perception on the shortness of relationships is predicated on the problems associated with people artificially attempting to hurry the process of getting to know each other up to the point that they, in essence, helped their relationships burn out much faster than they might have otherwise done. It also was about the idea that as we did that, we gave each other no time to internalize and develop an appreciation for the people we were meeting and so... at the first crisis, there was no well of intimacies and years-built reliance to pull from and poof... there went the relationships. We in essence, were burning out our relationships by demanding so much from them that they could not measure up or keep up. Add that to the whole infatuation addictions so many of us have (where we just love the newness of relationships but have no respect for or patience for or appreciation of the commonalities and calmness of long term relationships that we keep on running from one relationship to the other and feeding our infatuation on other.Having a serious relationship with which love and understanding would be the order of the day.my dreams re embedded in my thoughts and its the thought of going on vacation with my date.