11/05 UPDATE - I was very hurt by my last whatever she was, cuz she wasnt no woman. i put my ALL into her and i was ready to settle, ready to give myself to show her a good person. the man that i am, didnt matter to her. it was all about her and her life, her friends, her dog and her family. i was sex meat pretty much and was strung along. made to believe i was the best for her. so ladies before you write me, check yourselves. i want someone that will listen when i talk, can make time to communicate, can speak her mind and make logical decisions. aint gonna have me hanging on waiting, cuz i dont wait anymore unless ur showing yourself. you better know how to give more than ur body. im so tired of giving my loving to some tramp and thats without remission. im sick of giving my heart and being misused. call me bitter or whatever but im done with women that have nothing to offer. those that have agendas and out to get their way. im not ur puppet. especially from "grown women". spare me. im a southern boy and if you dont like being treated right, loved, adored, and spoiled then keep going. when im focused, im focused on you. ill do whatever it takes to keep you but u need to show attention, communication, sacrifice and adoration. im the type ill cook for u, buy u gifts, surprise you, cuddle, rub u down, give u kisses and be your best friend and more. after kimberly, i know i am torn up but i can recover if youre a real lady then bring it. if you want a loving, strong, well built black man then bring it. there arent many gentlemen left in this world so u better get on it or keep dealing with the lame men you so love to chance.
few facts for your liking: I was born and raised in NC, a lil town called Williamston.Im a die hard tar heel. From the clothes i wear to the scenery of my room I love the Panthers and the Canes hockey team and the Bobcats.im 6ft 225, phat booty, straight white teeth, great smile.im pretty built like a tight end but i wasnt born this way lol. i like the gym and trying to eat better. My fav artist is Al Green. I've been to 5 of his concerts in my life. I have pretty good stories from each. I have all of his music gospel and r and b. David Ruffin is next one. Oh man I love this man's music and the voice will make you move. He's truly the hardest, gentler singer to ever come around. But I love oldies period!! Thats 70,80,90's r and b, classic/southern gospel, some rap but not alot this new hip hop crap. - I love my southern food and i put it down in the kitchen when i can. my fried chicken is the ish!!
It would be nice to get a reply from a beautiful lady that can carry a conversation and aint shady and knows what shes after. but i doubt that'll happen. look...its the internet. a bunch of good talkers but i dont think women can be serious enough to appreciate and differentiate good men from the BS 'ers.
I'm here to find a beautiful lady with a wonderful lifestyle and has a lot of traits of a woman. one that will want a man and not just out for lame dating. hopefully you have a nice body, great smile, i prefer T over A honestly, can cook, take care of home and has an idea of how to treat a man. she should be loving, caring, sweet, no games, humble, considerate, can reply back adultly, can carry a conversation, wonderful in and out of bed. it's hard trying to find that online because almost every female is projecting this " perfect ,honest, independent, self righteous" lifestyle and cant be certain about who they are and what they are after. so please ,i dont really care about how many trips you take to mexico or how well you can hike or snowboard or how much of a vegan you are. let's see the real ladies that want real men.
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