lil1

Hi

My name is Megan I am 32 years old and have shared custody of twins that are 10. I am new to the bay area, been here about 3 months on my own but lived with kids dad in Fremont for a year. Just never got out of the house to drive and explore. Just store trips and little outings in our area. I currently live with a lady/roommate that I'm renting a room from in San Leandro. I am looking for a nice guy who is stable, honest, good morals, values & who is sincere about being monogamous. I don't want to date a bunch of different men looking for Mr. Right it's not my style or my area of expertise for that matter. I am not one who goes out to clubs or bars. I have been a stay at home mom so I like to do stuff like go to the movies, shopping, trips to Reno or Lake Tahoe. I love the beach and swimming in the pool is relaxing. Don't get me wrong I would love to find someone to spoil me take me all around show me things and experience new things I've never tried. I am honest real forward tell it to you just how I see it, dependable trustworthy and have only been in a few very long relationships never any short non-committal companionships. I am educated have nursing license in Oregon and Washington. Never intended on doing anything here but be full time mom so I never took steps to be licensed here. But my plans have changed very suddenly not by my choice it was his so I am trying to figure out whether to stay in health care field or go in another direction. I am very outgoing but never have to be center of attention. I'm a good listener, I even practice what I preach. I am very comfortable with who I am as a person and have no need to act like someone I'm not so what you see will always be what you get. I love to laugh play games very competitive and the close friends I have in my life have been my friends for years and I am proud of that. I grew up treating people exactly like I want in return. I don't ever go to bed mad I don't do drugs but I unfortunately smoke. That is one thing I do want to change one day soon. I'll tell you taken woman need to be faithful and why sell yourself short??? If she can't figure out how to be committed with someone she made promises to what makes you think she will be honest or committed to you?? she has shown you right away her word means nothing and trust I would think be very difficult to give. I don't know about you but my word means alot cause at the end of the day it's all you got to fall on. If once a cheat always a cheat. It's to easy to say your not happy end it and move on. Communication is the foundation of every relationship.