I have no hobbies any more, just aims in life, including to find my pair.
I am looking for my soulmate and I would like to have children.
This was not always so, but now all the circumstances, ”the position of the stars” are together that I get married.
Better later than never.
Who is my pair, my soulmate?
I narrowing the circle:
I do not go into these streets: beauty for money; sex for money.
I think so the Downtown kittenbabes do not want me for their husband. No problem, we can be friends, and we can laugh, on each other, or with each other.
Who in age rather would have my daughter than my wife though we are soulmates, that is friendship.
I am looking for my wife who is around 30-40 (or even out of this range, I am not too sensitive for age), and wants children.
I am average looking, and I do not expect more than this from my pair. (What is my standard in it, this is another question.)
What I expect is that in the internal qualities be at least as good (or bad as you like) as I am. This is the hard point to find this match. I am tolerant to a certain point, though.
What I also expect, that let us do the things on mutual basis, and always be in return. I got and gave many things on one side basis, and my experience is this is bad, very bad, because of bad dependencies, and this is the way to the lack of independence and parasitism. I experienced this, that is why I am strongly against it. This must not mean selfishness either, just the right way in the things.
As for the rest of the details, friendship first. My wife is my best friend.
I know there more than one woman who is good for my wife among the 3.5 billion, but I need only one, and friendship for the others. Also I know that this arrangement is not perfect, because the others are looking for their mates too, not just friends, but now I can not do more than that in the matter.
There is no divorced in our tighten family, and I do not want to be divorced too.
My sad experience is that whites (Caucasians) are mainly know two things, to be a high-faces, and to divorce. This is the way to extinction. Follow the Chinese examples, choose well (or be well chosen, if you like the passive mode better), be 3-4 children, smile and stay together despite the difficulties.
When everything is OK. in the families, there is chance that everything is OK. in the outside world too.
Now think the opposite case...
I am against, or avoid the mainstream when I do not agree with it.
Be warned: as for my current financial, and even my citizenship status is concerned, this is so much depends on others, that this has almost 100% uncertainty, and this is the part of my present life. Anyone who wants to be certain in this field for her pair, choose someone else.
And even I snore too.
I have three strong wish, to find my wife, to get some – or lot of – good friends, and to achieve a new religious and social system, called life-universalism. The fourth is children.
Sorry for my bad English.
(An opportunity for you to correct my mistakes. :)
