Maybe start off with a little relationship humour . . .
What do they say to the groom at weddings? - Congratulations, someone picked you!
What do they say to the bride at weddings? - Good luck. . .you'll need it!
Life is not too much fun if we can't laugh at ourselves. . .
"Well trained" guy, excellent listener, fun, dynamic, upbeat, passionate, of service. . .not "work". . .
The most attractive quality for me in a woman is someone who is happy with her life, what she has created and loves "receiving" goodness. Also attractive is someone who lives in the present moment. I'm at the stage of life, looking to learn more about love from a woman, be of service to her, and develop a friendship