Thanks for visiting my profile. They say you should enter into a relationship to give. I noticed many other guys are writing about what THEY want instead of what they have to offer. You deserve to have someone special, and I’m looking to start slowly, casual at first. I have a lot to offer and I love giving. I give the best of myself at work, at home, etc. With women it should be the same. I’ve always had women friends growing up, but in Japan, it’s quite difficult. Most women are reluctant to have male friends. Many women are hookers. Some just want to get married to a rich man and live comfortably for free. Others are worried about what people will say if they are seen with a man who is just a friend. Maybe it’s the same in China, I don’t know. I've been living in Japan for 15 years. Japan's culture is very polite but people can sometimes feel cold and distant. For example, I come from a culture where people usually hug and kiss each other. Japanese people don’t show their affection so much. I miss that personal touch and feeling wanted, loved, adored etc. So I'm here offering love and affection to someone special who also misses feeling like that and is looking for the same thing. Maybe you’re Japanese and agree with what I’m saying. –Or maybe from somewhere else. Either way, that feeling of love and physical connection with people is important to us. Everyone deserves to have that loving feeling in their life, right? If you take things slowly and accept the risk, it’ll be worth it, I promise. I think that before people can get close together, they should get to know each other a little anyway. It makes the whole experience better. It’s like having a delicious coffee. You don’t just drink it fast. You hold it gently first, letting the heat absorb into your hands. You smell it deeply letting the aroma fill your nose and throat. They you take the tiniest little sip letting the cream foam brush your upper lip. That’s how you should drink a coffee. That’s how you should kiss. That’s how you should meet people, and if you value respect, that’s the pace at which you have to approach me. It's important to me to respect you too, so you should better have lots of self-respect. As for the “other” kinds of women I mentioned before,.. hey, you may be pretty and look sexy in your photos but sorry, I don’t pay for prostitutes and I don’t give “brand name” gifts or bribes for sex. I want an authentic connection with someone to share real emotions. If you are a confident independent woman, we can reach an equal level of understanding and friendship. As for intimacy, you’ll need a photo or two. –Or 15! Attraction is visual so without photos on your profile, how can a man remember you? Mine are on the way. Good looks are important, and so are the following qualities: Someone who is gentle, honest, outspoken, intelligent, considerate, respectful and sometimes playful. -Most of all, fun. Are you fun to be with? Do people want to spend time around you? I’m very friendly with everyone. I’m happy with my life. I don’t need a woman to fix any problem. You are fine the way you are, and if that’s good enough for you, I’ll like you too. You should be happy with your life and still open to receive ideas from a man and grow as a person. You should be exciting, adventurous and eager to embrace romantic situations without fear. I would especially love it if you were open to trying new things. One more thing. If you have kids, you should not consider contacting me. You have a full-time job being a mother and I don’t want to be a parent to another man’s child. It’s your life and having a kid was your choice. It’s my choice to say “no thanks”. Otherwise, please read about me (below) to see if you’re interested in what I’m all about. If you email me, tell me what you think about this post. I haven’t tried online dating in a very very long time! Take care;)
