flyinsolo98

Allergies- cats

I am a very kind person. I like to have intellectual discussions and explore new topics without arguing, just exchanging opinions and feelings regarding all sorts of random things. I avoid conflict under any and all circumstances. I do not ever raise my voice- again, I avoid conflict at all costs. If I am strongly pressured into something, I may pretend that I am happy and behave in an agreeable way. But, for me- mentally that is the end of the relationship. Shortly afterwards, I will end the relationship if this happens. I survived a severely abusive childhood- courtesy of my mother So now, I have developed an extremely docile personality, I am not outspoken and fierce, as is the ideal woman. However, I am a very extroverted person. I do best with other extroverted people. If I am with another person, I cannot stay in the house all day and do nothing--- If that happened long term then I absolutely would quietly leave. Again, I do not ever raise my voice and I do not insult others. I value communication and I wear my heart on my sleeve. I cannot be around people who are easily frustrated or easily angered or have problems with real depression. I am a pretty happy person. maybe a bubbly personality at first, but after I establish a substantial foundation of relationship (understanding them and feeling understood, trusting them and also being trusted by them)-- then I become a more practical person. If I feel like they do not understand me on a very deep level then I will get a lot of cortisol all the time and sort of avoid being around them. Respect is very important to me. I am a considerate person and I get my feelings hurt and sometimes may not express that for fear of judgement. I try to be as respectful as possible. I feel very jaded by all the online apps and websites. It's not safe for women at all. I think I can build a very casual relationship with someone over time. I am an extraordinarily affectionate person and I value affection very much. I recognize and value recognizing the difference between love and romance. Many times, they can be very different. I am a deeply accepting person. My biggest desire is to be accepted. I am a very honest person. I do not lie and it would break my heart if someone lied to me. I prefer monogamy. If someone wanted to not be monogamous, I would most likely lose my feelings of affection and evolve into a friend of some sort. If I had to describe myself, then I would say that I have been ostracized by my family, therefore I do not value my relationship with any of my family members. Family is not important to me. With that said, I will always respect another person's family and be considerate to them. no kids- ever. I am not a wealthy person, and I do not accept financial support from anyone at all. I value political discussions and I pay bills. Let’s go places and walk around with cute dogs.