flip4phil

I am a kind loving man. A non-testosterone driven man(right-brined a lover not a fighter. I use my intelligence to resolve issues not fists. I think most man have a vulgar way of treating and talking about women. I would rather work with a women than a man. Women are logical and don't get their ego involved and always have to be right or win. In fact most of my best friends have been woman. I like long walks, short disputes, warm hearts and cool hands. Love must be unconditional or else it won't last. I would like to start a never-ending dialogue. Communicate, communicate, and your relationship will last. I like to talk but more over I like to listen. I have no need to talk about myself, I am interested in you! Some people have their communicators broken. They either talk to hear themselves or somehow what you say just bounces off. In my last career I worked for telecoms and ISP's and I would have to be a trainer from time to time to lower level engineers. I pride myself in being very articulate and clear in what I say and I don't talk over peoples heads,,,,sooo I very slowly explain to a 20 yr old how a modem works and I would get done and he or she would say huh? (pet peeve). Don't know why I am talking so much. I will be honest and tell you I have been alone and celibate for 10 yrs. Terrible breakup of my marriage a lot of traumatic things happened to me and when I hit 49 a cascade of illnesses(will explain if we continue). And the Sag I am it has just been killing me. So I have tried on-line and have been hurt twice but if you can't take the risk of being hurt you will never be happy.

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Back ground in music, photography, state government, self employed.

Beauty is only skin deep the heart and soul and of course chenistry.