My ideal mate must be kind and gentle, friendly, loves good music, thoughful, considerate, unselfish, generous, not jealous, positive thinker, can acknowledge his own mistake, physically and mentally fit person, health conscious, mild tempered, talks with sense, can give good advice, dependable, trustworthy, doesn't speak harsh words, funny, frank but not brutally, not a perfectionist, doesn't argue over little things, and respects others spiritual belief.