I am intelligent, assertive, well traveled, an excellent communicator, well-educated, a high achiever, a natural leader, I become soft, tender, and cuddly at the slightest provocation. I am a risk-taker. I love the thrill and excitement of new things, new places, new foods ...you get the idea. I am very affectionate. I crave intellectual stimulation. I like to do what has not been done before; kind of a trail blazer at heart. If I am involved in a romantic relationship with you, I believe it is my role to heal you - not wound you, and to kiss away the hurts of the past. I can see past your actions to understand what lies beneath. I will never have a problem with you sharing anything that is in your heart. I will never try to manipulate you with emotions; be it tears or anger. I am not selfish or controlling. I do not believe that nagging is a valid form of communication. It is one of the benefits of dating a mature man no drama or trauma. You will find me a most unusual Man. I am told that I am somewhat of an enigma. I am not uncomplicated; I am a mystery, even to myself sometimes. There is an upside... years from now we can still be discovering things about each other. If you are a traditional person/thinker, I will probably drive you crazy.I enjoy the beach, water, sunshine, sunsets, splashing water on you , in a dense forest, sitting on some rocks near a river, quiet nature, or skipping rocks. BBQ, and a fire. I have alot of other interests..... Time goes so quickly! Billards and motorcycle cruise to the beach or an old road with wicked trees, just exploring nature. I like to cook, very creative mind & spiritual.