beauty4ashes

I'm 29 years old. I'm quiet and pretty shy i guess. I'm a christian and looking for someone with this same belief and moral. Friendship would be nice with the hope of it growing and maturing into something more.

I'm a single mother by choice" meaning i had my son on my own using a sperm donor. My son is almost 2yrs old now. I haven't been in a relationship in over 6 years. I always wanted to be a mother - it was my most cherished dream in life. when my last relationship didn't work out i decided that if i was still single by the time i was 27 then i would proceed to have a child on my own ... and thats what i did.

My son is my world and if you were to come into my life you would have to be willing to love and cherish him as much as i do. I'm a fantasitc mother (i don't mind saying so myself) i love my son beyond words. I never yell at him, or brush him off. he is my entire focus. My job as his mother is to make his childhood safe secure and happy and thats what i strive to do each and every day. i delight in him in every moment - yep even what he's decided to treck mud inside -- childhood is meant to be messy and its so special watching him engage in and explore the world. Thats not to say he's a spoilt brat! he has boundries and disipline but these things can be accomplished with love and gentle direction - one doesn't need to yell and scream or get angry! children are a gift and they need to be cherished and valued as such.

I guess i'm a gentle person in gneral. mild and loving, delighting in the moment.

My life has not been perfect and i struggled greatly with depression and anorexia through my teens and mid 20's with hospital admissions due to such low weights. but i'm out the otherside of that nightmare and now thriving while living my dream of motherhood. But i would like someone to share my joy with. someone for my son to call daddy. someone to love and protect and cherish me and i them in return.

I'm an arty girl, but also a very girlie-girl, feminine, petite, gentle.

I'm clean in the house and organised most of the time.

I've been a full-time mother but this year am heading back to uni to start my degree in nursing. Which is going to require a bit of travelling back and forth to launcestion (i'm located in penguin - half way between burnie and ulverstone). Come 2 weeks time i'll be juggling full-time motherhood and full time study. hopefully i may still have some time to develope a relationship in there also.

I've only been living back in tassie 3 years after spending my teens till mid 20's in Peth WA.

well anyway i think i've almost written a novel here so i'll leave off now....

if you want to get to know me more you can always make contact :)