So writing a self summary, and yes I know I can be a writer but geez it's awkward. So I asked some friends to help me out and write something as if they were going to tell someone that's never met me, about me.
Here's what my "first" friend wrote:
If you would be enriched by knowing someone who can bring a touch of whimsy to the conventional, season both the routine and the extraordinary with insightful good humor, be both discerning and determined when pursing either personal goals or facing life's challenges, and be consistently willing to uncover the best in people, you would be well served by getting to know Red. In addition to the above qualities, Red is honest, loyal and deeply spiritual. He is a man who knows his own mind, but is always open to personal growth. He has a gentle soul that abhors meanness for sport, or cruelty in any form. He is not, however, a shrinking violet. He is quick to act in the defense of the helpless and can be a formidable force when faced with an injustice. He is simultaneously precise and creative; comfortable with, and intrigued by, the unconventional and quirky. He hangs as easily with guy friends as with girl friends but with respect to love and romance, He is best described as sultry, manly, and highly attracted to female energy. I am blessed to have him as my friend.