Whiteluv65

For me an ideal relationship starts with two people that accept each other without conditions, expectations, and judgments, and are wiling to work together thru anything and everything needed to learn, grow, and build a lasting relationship that they both believe in without doubts. Tall order, but simple to do when let go of the past and live in the now of your life in all of your experiences. An ideal relationship is different for everyone. It begins and ends with the total acceptance of one another. When you can give and get that, you have a lot to work with. You accept each other where you are and through growing together, those things that you like least will disappear without you even knowing. They really don't, but when your focus is on the strengths, the so called weakness won't matter. Know what you want, but remove any and all thought or expectations of how it is suppose to show up in your life. Wonder comes dressed in the unexpected moments that appear when you are ready. You have to remove any blinders created by expectations to recognized it when it does. You always move toward what you dwell on most and it can't help but grow. That is the world that I believe in without doubt.