The best thing I could ever do for you is to let you know who I really am. It's not a secret, it's not arrogance on my part, it's just that it is only possible to know someone - and thus to learn how to love that someone - after knowing who they really are; if their words follow their actions.
Some people say after you love someone, their flaws diminish with respect to their qualities. So, why try to sweep under the rug anything, anyway? I am seldom very impulsive or way too kind, sarcastic, I'm impatient with arrogant people, I love to sleep and I can be lazy sometimes. Some other times I talk too much about all sorts of things, I wonder about philosophical questions, I dream big and far away.
But I am also a kind, honest person, dedicated to my passions, interests and duties, I respect people's individualities, points of view, and spaces. I look for the best in every person I cherish, and overlook their flaws. I'm not in position to judge anyone, and their choices in life. Life is plentiful, vast, colorful. To think of it or to judge anyone based on whatever their business card says, is just too an unhappy, unfulfilled way of living.