IF YOU ARE ONLY INTERESTED IN US CITIZENSHIP, OR ARE CRUISING FOR BOOTY, OR DO NOT speak english FLUENTLY PLEASE DON'T WASTE MY (OUR) TIME.
Thanks! Sorry for the rest of you that had to read that... I live right near Washington D.C., in case your US geography wasn't your favorite course in school. I'm a straight forward person and always tell the truth, and I expect people will do the same with me. I'm hardworking, stable, eat very healthy and take care of myself. Yes, I'm a Yankee, but I'm looking for a mature unselfish person. I'm a very liberal, but practicing (until I get it right!) Catholic, and I'd like to meet someone that shares that. Otherwise I like to have fun, and goof around. I'd like to think I have a pretty good (but not vulgar) sense of humor.
Looking for a grown up, INTELLIGENT, educated gentleman who can actually apologize (I'm more than happy to take credit for my mistakes- but I'm not going to be the only one). If you are racist or extremely vulgar or homophobic or only think women belong in the kitchen or haven't yet dealt with your strange attachment to your mother please don't bother to write to me, because I can tell you we won't get along.
I'm not really interested in having children unless the partner will take care of them. My job has always come first, and you have to understand that. I'm a career person. With that in mind, I would relocate only if I could find a job in your area.
Yes, I am a very high strung person, because I'm usually always thinking of ways to do things better or improve them (as well as improve myself). I'm ambitious and I work hard. I'm not the kind of person who sees a mess on the floor, or a person who needs help and does nothing about it. That being said, I like to volunteer and help those who are going through tough times, because I understand what that's about.
If you're looking for someone to take care of you- IT AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN HERE. I would fully expect my partner to do their share of whatever tasks we share together.
I don't drink or smoke, but I don't care if you do, as long as you are not an alcoholic. If you are, please get help. If you don't know if you are or not, you probably are.
If you sit around and complain, but do nothing to improve your situation, we also probably won't get along.
HOWEVER- If you are striving for some type of goal, and you are working hard to get there, no matter how "unrealistic" it is, that's AWESOME. If you find yourself helping random strangers, holding doors open for old people, watching kids to make sure they don't get hurt in traffic, then you again are AWESOME. If you take pride in your appearance, no matter what it is, then you are AWESOME. If you have a great career that you love, no matter what that is, you are also AWESOME. If you're secure enough with yourself that you can listen to other people's points of view without losing your mind, you are also AWESOME.