I find it hard to make friends in person so most of my friends are online from around the world. I'm shy at first but when I feel comfortable I can hold a conversation, want to teach me car mechanics no problem just don't expect me to understand why you feel the need to paint engine parts...they are just going to get dirty anyways (laughing).
I am looking for someone reasonably good looking, who is physically compatible with me(to be determined if everything else goes well), who will love me and my kids, I can't have more kids as I've been fixed for health reasons but I'd accept yours as I'd hope you accept mine when they visit.
No smoking, some drinking is ok, I would like someone who enjoys getting me away from my computer sometimes, someone who helps me feel better about myself that I want to be a better person which includes going and getting that gym membership I keep looking at but never buying.
I like my men clean cut or shaving bald, and no facial fur please. You can be a few years younger than me if you have your head on right as wild might be fun but could never be a part of my life permanently, or you can be up to 11years older just so long as you have the energy and good humor to keep the days from dragging.
I do have my down days like everyone, but I am looking for someone to help me thru them the way I would help them.
I enjoy the things I can do at home...but would like to get out and enjoy walks again, horseback riding, downhill skiing, skating, swimming, dancing and some good company.
My schedule right now is hard, I am working graveyard shifts only and I never get Fridays or Saturday nights off except when I take vacations.
My boys ages 9 and 3 live primarily in BC with their dad and it's very random and relatively little notice(usually a week) as to when I'll get them and last minute as to how long I get to keep them before they need to return.
I have a dirty mind but still blush at the thoughts I find there. I am not necessarily looking for marriage tho I'm not against it either...however I am looking for permanence not just casual dating.
My life hasn't been easy and I don't believe anyone's is...but get to know me treat me right and we could have a wonderful future. I'm going to be picky this time around guys I am tired of getting hurt and having to pick up the pieces and explaining to my boys where someone has gone.
My living arrangements are complicated so it will never be my place unless I can find and afford somewhere else on my own. I hope I haven't scared everyone off by being too honest...
