Gonna have to shorten this up at "Kind, Accountable and Self Aware"
details,
I see a woman as a wonderful asset in life as I am in theirs. We look for the positives in each other and are open to something new. We are probably both pretty busy but we will care enough to find time for one another. Life is meant to be shared but, it is better to be alone than with the wrong person.
I have many hidden level benefits to be discovered.
Museums, live plays and concerts are fun. I'm affectionate and passionate. I'm in a good place in my life. I own my own home, car, a decent job and I have pride in what I've worked hard for. So, if your life is a mess we are probably not a good match. Just being honest.
Optimistic and see the glass half full. I try not to take myself too serious, admit when I am wrong and do change my mind with facts and data. I feel I am a genuinely good person and try to be kind. I enjoy simple things in life. I am a hardworking person and prefer to spend my time well. Not rushing into anything too fast. Would love to see friendship turn into a LTR. I do believe in soul mates If I were to meet me, I would think I'm cool. Honesty is important. I am not an alcoholic or an addict.
still reading?
I respect boundaries. Please don't waste your time or mine and be real. For the most part I keep calm with things. I always make the best decision I can at the time based on what I know. Admittedly sometimes it ends up as a "well it seemed like a good idea at the time", learn from it and move on. I am a good listener.
Hard lesson of not rescuing people, instead rescue a dog. People bite afterwards.
random things,
I karaoke Neil Diamond, Bob Segar, LFO, Fleetwod Mac or will try whatever with a friend. I learned how to 3D print.
good luck to us all
MBTI - INFJ
and an additional thought,
I, like others, am at a place in life where I could fall in love with the right person and love hard. I am comfortable in my own world as well. I haven't given up on the site but see it is a healing place for many with the std curse. I recently read a post from a member urging people like me to join e-harmony. probably good advice. So just throwin it out there, if you too are at a place in life where you are looking for a relationship, don't procrastinate. throw it out there, show people you are interested. Maybe with patience, love and understanding you short-term relationship with true love.
My match
I've changed this description multiple times. I guess because I've been trying to describe this woman that I have in my mind, but I'm really not even sure a specific "wish list" is realistic. A good person, somebody like me to spend time with, hang out, and when the stars align we will have a beautiful LTR So I think I'll just say this, if you read about me and you think I sound like someone you might be compatible with, then let's chat and see what happens.