***Immigrating to Ireland ***
I would like a man with integrity. I really don't think that is too much to ask for. I will admit that is very vague so I will try to narrow it down a little to make your selection easier to make.
I am looking to fall in love for the last time so he has to be single and not in any kind of relationship at all. Since deceit of any kind kills trust and no relationship can survive without trust, he has to be 100% transparently honest and can expect the same in return. Actions speak much louder than words and since a man's word is his honour, he has to follow through on his promises even if it kills him. He can expect the same in return and he can also expect to be shown the highest respect so he needs to be able to show this in return.
Since I don't drink at all, I will not get along very well with anyone who drinks often or a lot. I also will not get along with anyone who does drugs of any kind and this means dope too. I am not looking to be supported because I love my job but I am also not looking to support him. He should be employed full-time and have a plan for his future that includes me.
Here let me sum this up to make it easier for you to understand, I need a man:
... who wants to make me happy and healthy, I give the same in return who loves me for who I am without trying to change me, I give the same in return
... who won't leave me or threaten to when he gets angry, I give the same in return
... who understands any kind of deceit destroys trust and relationships, I give the same in return
... who respects me and strives to always do what is right for "us" not just for himself, I give the same in return
... who treats me properly and in the manner I deserve, I give the same in return
... that listens to understand instead of listening to react, I try to do the same in return
... that follows through on his words with actions instead of excuses, I give the same in return
... who understands just how precious my submission truly is and will be responsible for its growth and care
... who is consistent, patiently firm, and committed to continuous building, I give the same in return
I will NOT settle for less