Prefer PICS..dont have to be great mine arent I am the least judgmental person you could ever meet..TRUST me!..itll b amusin 2see whose truly interested n actually reads thisFav Quotes..~-You just have to go after what you want, and if they don't want you back, so be it...they didn't deserve you anyways~-Find arms that will hold you at your weakest, eyes that will see you at your ugliest, and a heart that will love you at your worst..only then will you have found true love~-No guy is worth your tears, and when you find one that is, he won't make you cry~-Be with someone who knows what they have when they have you~-All I want is for one guy to prove to me they are not all the same~I am a single mother of two beautiful little boys 1 & 3..theyre my life!I am looking for a real man & real love..not sleeping arounds, not casual friend or non stressful arrangements or any married men or attached men so if you are do not stop here!..I do not work(as you can understand why, PLz don't judge)..I stay at home, my days are filled with dirty diapers, tiny tantrums, many a mess to clean..but filled with love!..I really would prefer not having strangers around my children until I know if there is anythin between us so it can be challenging meeting people..I don't exactly have a huge support system for help or babysitting needs so its a rarity 2go out..its usually my twin sis who lends a hand when shes not working herself.So as for talking to see if anything can be pursued I prefer men who have cell phones as textings the easiest form of communication for me.(Yes I'm of the rare kind who really hates talking on the phone..for guys curious of my voice I always say listen to my answering machine ha ha)I want to be up front here that I also have a disease, a form of arthritis called Ankylosing Spondylitis..& unfortunately it took NB drs 3 years 2stop blaming pregnancy and take me seriously to investigate. Its a painful disease, theres no cure and even tho i am now seeing experts and constantly seeking meds to control the pain I have spent the majority of the last few years bedridden..My body is a product of that along with 2 pregnancies that I was unable to work off so if you are of the judgmental, superficial variety you can skip this profile and find yourself your own kind.I'm not expecting perfection & I do not want 2 be with someone who expects it..I care very deeply and I try to see good and beauty in everyone. I have been on both sides of the fence with outer beauty..depending on circumstances I can be drop dead hot or ugly as hell so i do not judge the outer nor do I want anyone around me who does! I can be very photogenic and only wish I could look like the girl in the picture..in past moments I have, just not lately..angles on cameras do wonders lol..I have lived a life of ups and downs, being raised as a preachers daughter in a strict UPC setting, my dad died of cancer when I was 8..I left church at the age of 20 and in the last five years lived the extreme opposite of religion but now have reached a happy medium in which im more comfortable..Iam looking for someone who can be my rock..life has been hard I need that trust, unconditional love that will love me thru my super hot moments and my super ugly moments..someone who can offer that stability for me but also excitement..Im a sexual person I need love, I need romance and i want to give someone all that in return..People seem to forget mothers may be all about there kids but they still want a life of their own as well and have a need for desire, freedom. I am a girly girl..I love the water, swimming in the lakes, I was raised in the country and am a country girl at heart, I'd prefer a man who loves to play with kids & be around them...its not easy being a single mom but a man whose willing to accept that I do have kids already is ok in my books...no idea why but i love dark hair on a man..but I really am all about the personality! I'm looking for a guy who is caring & whocan listen cuz I'm a "venter" by nature..someone who loves 2 cuddle at nite and loves 2 talk and can say sweet things like if im looking good 2 not keep silent or if im having a bad day do something thoughtful 2 cheer me up its those little things that make you feel special & I need 2feel like im special to the man I'm seeing..More then anything I want a man to be at my side cuddling with me at nite, holding me, telling me he will be there for me & everything will be ok..a man who desires me as much as I desire him..Sex is important..chances are if I do not feel satisfied chances are I wont be able to stick around and/or give anything back sexually..he needs 2 be open minded but a one woman man..no players! sexual chemistry is a deal breaker for me..! I NEED 2 be attracted to you in a huge way as in "can't stop touching" you huge way..I am an extremely honest person and he must VALUE HONESTY ABOVE ALL ELSE honest because I do not want any head games!!I'd prefer older men usually in their 30s..(but thats not written in stone lol..i guess i just prejudge a little that older men are more mature and not all about partying..sorry)..who are stable in life & are caring, loving, mature and looking 2 settle down but arent boring..can stay up late and can do crazy things..I'm a nitehawk and like 2 be spontaneous at times..I love massages(it relaxes me)I love easily & care deeply, have up days & down days but need a man who can love me thru them all,a man whose willing 2make the effort,who has manners and respects women but can let loose in the bedroom..I have had lots of drama in my life mainly due2 my sons dad so do not bring any more drama in2 my life!A relaxing night to me is just going for a drive with my tims/irvings drink in hand enjoying good conversation or a night in cuddling watching tv..am a reality show junkie sorry lol I love to have a few drinks & hang out as well..I love swimming, reading, cooking, bonfires..Fall is my favorite time of year..& mint green is my favorite color..& some day I'd love 2 visit Europe..I love history..am a bit of a pessimist & believe in love at first sight, sometimes I enjoy a good argument,I'm into all types of music mostly & yes i do love Michael Jackson..I love going atving in the woods..the faster the better.I have been told I'm kindhearted but you be the judge,I'm very open minded & looking for desire combined with love.I'm twin & am very close 2my her & my family..believe in kindness towards the elderly, I love to laugh but its hard when you see people in the world hurting,I believe in compassion, honesty,cleanliness and passion..I love public affection,I cry,I'm emotional,I believe everyone is special..& i hate death & fighting I love humanity, positivity, I'm me! take me or leave me!
