Hi. I'm a 37 year old attractive African American man. I'm an old fashioned kind of person that loves to smile and contributing to others doing the same. I am looking for a woman that I can establish a friendship with, which will lead to a relationship. I'm a pretty good catch that you will never have to play catch up with. I am mature young at heart and the rest is as follows take it, or leave it:
*I live with my 74 year old mother due to choices in my past that I am still paying for. The mitigating circumstances in my life will have no bearing in how I will deal with you. What I can do that is within reason I will do. What I cannot do I will not stress either of us out behind it.
*I am not insecure and I manage my emotions very well.
*I was raised by my mother so I have manners, class and a lot of understanding and tolerance for female hot's and colds.
*I don't want to have to knead you to get to know you...open up that's what we are here for.
*I am not currently employed, but I can hold a primary 9 to 5 job and I am self employed as a writer. I write fiction, narrative poetry and prose. My work is published on Amazon.
* I am not seeking a friendship and later on a relationship to subsidize my financial situation...I am not looking for a "Sponsor" and I am not a project.
*I am a affectionate, passionate person.
*I sometimes cut myself off from other people don't take it personal.
*By default I am always striving to be a better man.
*I am an a**hole at times.
*I like interactive conversation and losing track of time.
*I am someone that will pay attention to the small things when it comes to you.
*I am patient and a good listener
*I am sweet and romantic.
*If I am not into you I will tell you.
*I am nurturing, but I have my limits.
*I am not into dating, or entertaining several or more then one person at a time and I do not play chase.
*I am spontaneous.
*I am not clingy, or needy and I require the same.
*If something isn't working I will always respect you.
*I am a gentlemen and I will not entertain anyone that is not a lady and who does not have manners and integrity.
*I do not want a manly hearted women, but I have no problem at all with a strong willed woman.
*I do not play mind games.
*I am stubborn so in most cases I will seek to agree to disagree if we cannot see eye to eye.
*I can adapt to most things that you like to do, because by design seeing you enjoy yourself, smile and genuinely be happy makes me happy.
*Nobody is perfect and everybody has their flaws, but I only ask that you be conscious of them and take accountability just like you want me to.
*Do not put yourself through unnecessary changes trying to "fix" me
* Everything aforementioned may seem like a lot, but communication, clarity and brutal honesty will work wonders if you work with it. I look forward to meeting you. Let's enjoy each other and just see where this goes...
