Hello, my name is Darren, I'm 52, 5'11, brown hair, brown eyes, slightly stocky build
I have been divorced for about 6 years now and have been by myself all these years, only had a short relationship a year ago and nothing more although I have enjoyed being alone till recently when I started seeing the consequences of loneliness and now I do know that no matter how good it looks and feels, loneliness is never anyone`s friend especially when you have a good loving, nurturing and caring soul.
I`m actually seeking a partner who`s well ready to invest her time, energy and emotion in building a long lasting relationship, I discovered that the dating scene is not what it used to be during our youth age not to talk about the online scene with so many disreputable and irresponsible individuals so am trying to apply caution still with my guards up and make adjustments not to jump into anything too quickly but I`m leaving my heart opened for the right person even though the walls I have built around it over the years are so tall and strong I could let them down when the right person needs to take possession, I used to know that when the right person comes all the things that were formally big and tall becomes small such that they won`t matter anymore; you know what I mean right??
I am not here to say that I want the perfect woman as I am not a perfect being myself, but someone who will look through the mistakes we have made in the past and look through my imperfections and see the best in me, I am not going to put up with a lady who`s psychologically a victim of her past but someone who value and treasures the future more than the past even though our past makes us who we are today, I seek that special lady who doesn`t allow her past pull her down each time she wants to make a step forward in life, and most importantly she`ll have to understand that Honesty is the best Policy as I don`t like dramas and so I want to know everything so I`ll sure know what am getting into, I love communication and would appreciate if we can communicate at different levels.
I`ll like you to be upfront with me, tell me exactly what you want from me and answer a couple of questions for me; Where do you live presently and your living conditions, are you talking with other men at the moment? When was your last relationship, are you seeking a long term?? Please be honest with me because no need to hide stuffs when the truth will surface sooner, well if you`re looking out for a casual dating you may not have to write back because you`ll be wasting your time as well as mine since such will never happen trust me, I`m sorry if I sounded a bit too harsh on that one, just don't appreciate mind games.
I will love to run now and want you to know that I`ll do my very best to keep this communication running and more effectively. Looking forward to your reply.
