POLOMAN59

Hmmmm……. This could be the tough part but normally I don’t have trouble talking about myself and what interests me. I will give you the low down and you decide if I’m overthinking or not. I am living with my 93-year old dad while my mother lies in a nursing home waiting to die. She has been very sick weak and feeble that the doctors told us last week they would right orders for her to get comfort care but not anything to prolong her life. Dad fell and broke his hip 8 weeks ago and is walking now up the stairs to his room I, on the other hand have been attempting to take over the financial responsibilities from my mother because it was time to give me the responsibility but she resisted and resisted and now it’s tax time and I don’t have a clue what a CPA needs to file their Corporation Fed. And St. taxes and I don’t like to not know how to do something I should have been shown how to do for my parents and I finally took over my mother’s desk but the piles of papers would make most people depressed to look at. That story about my mother is just the proverbial “tip of the iceberg” in my life. So you might be thinking what am I doing looking for passion and romance when my days are over before they begin! Ah but the heart never gives up even if the person does. I am retired mechanical engineer who takes care of his dad that has a lot of dementia and amnesia. We do the best we can but sometimes I get a short temper and bark at him and then we move on. Interests are recorded music food nature