First of all, nothing is more attractive then a person who is comfortable in his own shoes and knows what he wants in life and how to get there.
He must be as comfortable staying at home watching movies as dragging us out on crazy adventures.
We have to be able to be friends with each other before ever starting to become romantic. He must match my sarcastic and dry sense of humor, or at least understand it. He must care very much about family and animals.. Prefably care somewhat about people around him in general.
He must be affectionate, but realize that there are times when I need my space. He must be capable of taking care of himself financially.
He must have the ambition to make changes to improve his life, rather than just wishing things would be better.
He must be open minded on subjects of religion and politics. he doesn't necessarily have to have a college education, but he must be able to keep up with intelligent conversation and have an educated opinion on things.
He must fully understand that our relationship is a partnership, and we share all duties as equally as much as possible, such as working, paying bills, cleaning, cooking, ect. and he must give me just as much love and respect as I give him..
Simply - live by the "golden rule"
Are there any good and reasonable ones still out there?