Finding myself blinking somewhat being back in the dating scene again after such a long time...but think it would be nice to have someone special who, thinks more of herself than just no-strings fun and one-nighters...what's the point unless you know it's going to happen again?? I think you need to discover if you've some chemistry first, before you indulge in any physics! :)
I don't tend to take life or myself too seriously, and will confess that I'm superficial enough to be rather swayed by nice eyes! Having a personality is a great start, too.... Intelligence essential - prefer someone capable of reading my nonsense here then sending a vaguely relevant reply, rather than a banal one-liner!
Good looking would be great. Sexy would be fantastic. A great lover would be the icing on the cake. But hey-ho, no one is perfect, not even moi!! So no, I'm not really looking for much - must be a great kisser, though - it's a vastly underrated activity!! (especially on the back of the neck!) Yes, yes, even we men like that too, y'know...
Plus - if possible - femininity, unpredictability, understanding that there is an interesting big world out there, above all - a lady with a strong mind of her own who treats men as genuine equals and would like me to cook HER a nice dinner for a change. Everyone needs both a bit of relaxation and a little TLC from time to time...and then, relationships have a habit of evolving, mais non??...! The worst thing, I suspect, in a medium like this, is to be too prescriptive or procedural...