I have been reserving my dating availability for when I meet a NON-Vanilla woman. I need you to message me and let me know up front if what I describe, is truly one of our shared interests. Once we agree on this detail, then it becomes important to ensure that we are compatible in the rest of our everyday lives.
To give you a frame of reference, look to the dramatic novel, in Fifty Shades of Grey. I felt strongly for the romantic needs of Ana, while at the same time I related to the desire to explore the NON-Vanilla side of sensation play and excitement of both mental bonding and physical restraints. I'm not into giving or receiving pain. In terms of D/s I can be a 'Switch' to be a caring loving people pleaser and take on the role that suits the mood or desire of my partner.
I believe in a healthy life style, avoiding drugs & alcohol, focused on good diet, hygiene & sleep, modest daily exercise. Example, Hiking for 20 minutes, even in the winter, when I make a point of finding my way up a hill to achieve my target heart rate. I am 2x Vaccinated.
I might come across as an intellectual, as my logical mind needs to be filled with knowledge before I exhibit total confidence. I hate to be fake, and without knowledge, I am the type of person who negotiates, instead of take charge up front. (Negotiation safe Sane, Consensual) I take the time to listen or ask you for feed back so that I can assess the situation. I analyze and collect data to formulate my opinions before I decide whether I should be taking control, or not... still writing...
