Gvalley05

I am looking for someone who can keep up with me, and let things progress on their own momentum. I love a woman who can stimulate me physically but as well as my intellect. Also I like to try different things to spice things up. I am almost down for anything but if there is something that I am not into then I will let you know. I want someone who can hold a conversation and appreciate me as much as I appreciate them. Most of all someone who has and understands what empathy is. If you don't know what empathy is then don't even waste your time and move on looking for a woman who will be able to make time for me as much as I will do for her. She has to understand what we both expect clearly from one another and that is why communication is very important as to me as well. She needs to be understanding because we both have to make a living and so trust is a huge factor for me with any potential relationship. I also do not want a woman who places doubts and that means being consistent. I understand in life that no matter how well you plan something out that you may have to adjust things to accomplish your goals whether short or long term and that is fine. But to be flip flopping all the time creates a lot of doubts and I cant stand that.

Oh I'm not into the whole club scene anymore, I am pasted that. I don't mind a pool/bar once and awhile but clubs are all about drama for me, especially in a relationship. You may say you go there just to dance but guys defiantly don't go to dance. I used to one of those guys and I am passed all those games and hump and dump situations. Just wanna grow up and NOT be a Toys "R" Us Kid anymore and I want the same thing in a potential lady.

Another thing I don't like in a woman is someone who is ignorant and bigoted. Don't want someone so self absorbed and focused on what other people will think and stress out on what may happen. So keep it real with me and I will keep it real with you. Everything will not be perfect in a relationship so don't sweat the small stuff. But one thing I will not try to work through is infidelity and consistent malicious lying. Been there and done that and never again.