Gottalivnow

Hello I’m a 60 years old asian American man. Still married and honestly it is mostly good, but not joyous, we seem to be drifting apart, gradually. Kids are older and our interests are different though we still laugh and talk with each other. I work in another state and keep a small apartment, which is the reason I checked living apart. But when I’m “home” we’re together under the same roof. And it’s ok.

My viewpoint is to do things while I still physically can. I’ll go and do things on my own if I have to while I can, as I may have another 10 good years before I really fall apart. Who knows right?

I plan to be in Tokyo some time in October, not sure exactly when though. So if you’re up for talking over coffee I’m definitely up for that. My Japanese language ability is so-so but I think passable. If you can’t tell I’ve never done anything like this before.