Genuinenotnaive

Wide awake over here, lessons learnt along the way makes for a brighter life and ability to stick wnd stay. Stick and stay is a term used here meaning having ability to work threw things in a relationship communicate maturely without yelling name calling and working for the long game meaning healthy relationship with your person that you know chooses you every day. I’m not looking to meet marry and that’s it. I want to develop healthy bond. I say I’m not naive because I’ve been played I’ve fallen for games before. It’s taught me a lot. I’m not a white women just looking for a black man because I think it’s cool , I’m legitimately moving 50% time then full time to Jamaica and made that decision in 1996 when I visited and again in 2000 when I dated seriously a great guy from there and I have a close lady friend yes just friend whom lives there and will take me in keep me safe and learn to local ways. I have a love of the culture lifestyle and I’d like to share my passion for healthy lifestyle my being wellness practitioner/ teacher of English as second language and a strong background in business along with a strong background in theatre film and production. I hope to connect with people whom would embrace me as a genuinely good person who would love to shoot documentaries and short episodes showcasing stsrt up companies or charities & people who want to be heard on larger platform and use the fun of being alive to create films and shows with educational component but also fun. I don’t know it all I’d love to learn there skills and ways I am not yet familiar with, this is a lot about things I do but when it comes to who I am at the core. I’m a sweetheart I have a great sense of humour and I’m loyal. I’m adventurous and like to see different sites and traditions but literally just live life in a country I was welcomed with open arms into a family I’ll never forget and I choose this to be my forever home so I don’t want any short-term relationships that will haunt me or played into some sort of game. I’m going to explore options of meeting someone who knows I see you and you see me for my genuine love of life my hard work and my ability to just appreciate someone for who they are where they are at and where they want to go. No baggage here no anger towards ex no running from anything just wish to have that man as my best friend my partner and solid who is wanting a women who can laugh or be a soft landing when times get tough. It’s okay to not know it all or have it all together but choosing healthy lifestyle and not wanting any drama in a relationship actually respects women and will be treated with respect back. Real lady looking for setting up new life with a real man here for a good connection honesty please I don’t have children I’d love to be with a man who does who’s baby moma is in a civil connection with the dad and won’t be angry if I’m around. I’ve been a nanny and raised my younger half brother I’m still considering if I could raise children I’d like a partner if someone still interested in having children but I’m unable to carry children so I’d be with a single father or looking at different options then being pregnant adoption is something I’m I open to or I can choose to live life with my partner and not have children I’d grieve this forever but I’m in 40s now so I’m realistic that if I can’t raise children I’ll make sure to be part of volunteering as well as putting on children drama camps and having fun around friends children . Rational reasonable and open minded. Natural lifestyle healthy haven’t drank much over past five years but have been studying courses expanding company and working hard at rebuilding life expanding and going at it so I have multiple streams of income not just one. I’ve said too much but if you read it I hope you hear me and hear I’m loving gentle but can have fun I’m not uptight or in a hurry even my walking I don’t race down the street like Canadians do upon arrival ? I lived in both coast of Canada and choose to be near beach ocean and I said if not married in my 40s I’m definitely coming back to live full time and well here we are. It’s not like I haven’t had long term relationships that worked out but my drive for living there has deterred a lot of people from committing full time as a lot of people don’t grasp moving countries or what it’s like to just flat out bottom line feel more at home there than anywhere. So I hope I’m welcomed and not viewed as coming for some unique wild ride where I think I know all. I’m humble and have taken hits like we all do and I’d love to actually enjoy life while working and contributing to economy swapping knowledge and offering my skills to business that would be open to hiring a wellness practitioner not going to try tske locals jobs just want to have fair chance to meet nice women as friends and a nice man who knows I’m there for an actual life not vacation.please just don’t lie to me and I won’t lie to you the rest we can figure out. Yep I wrote way too much let’s see if anyone read it all. Look forward to meeting you I’m connected to people in Kingston and Montego but the family I’m close too is near betheltown and negril so I do have options to go few different places and still have my safety in place until I feel secure to navigate and start living life. Montego Bay was fun we lived in a townhouse about ten mins away and I enjoyed the area but my strongest network is in Kingston so I’d hope to meet someone who doesn’t mind visiting me there and if I choose to move to another area with someone I will once I’m solid on the relationship aspect and we make that decision like I said I’m not in a rush or need anything I want us to choose each other and keep doing that day after day thank you for reading I’ll keep it short now you’ve had a idea of my mindset snd what I’m about if I wrote long snd u want to pass it saves time in chatting if you like what u see then you have a good sense of who I am . Thanks for reading now let’s chat ? my chat style will be less lengthy answers I swear ?