Formerly a nice guy that was friend zoned. You know that guy who is kind, capable, willing to help. The type of guy that heard "you're the type of guy I want to marry but I just want to have fun right now."
I'm that guy. But now with a little bit more edge and not willing to settle for any relationship that isnt based on trust and mutual respect. I tend to place more faith in actions than words.
I have several passions and on my days off when I'm not helping friends (because I'm that guy) I will be in the mountains or on the lake with my husky. I love to cook and host gatherings often. I have a great job and not willing to give that up. Although I plan to retire sometime in the next 1-7 years and follow other ambitions. I do have a second job for fun and it keeps me busy.
Like many men my age I'm too old to rebuild my life again. So if you require a ring and plan to take 60% of my assets and retirement kindly move on. I value myself too much for that. While I will not marry or contract to give all power to a woman. I am willing and capable to commit for a lifetime, if the woman in my life is of high value character and my equal. I am not a push over or simp. I am a bit of an alpha that understands chivalry, but is tired of feminazis literally yelling at me because I opened the door for them or used the term ma'am.
After about 40 all the good guys are either corrupted or turned and no longer available. I may be one of the last ones but I need a genuine woman who will take the time to invest into showing me that I should unlearn what life has taught me and make something truly special with me by her side
Formerlyniceguy
