Well here goes Firstly I am a christian but doesnt by any means mean i am a bible basher. I am 50. very short hair, sometimes shaved, tash & beard, brown eyes, slightly overweight but HEY!!! who isnt? I have a little boy and 3 daughters who sadly dont live with me. I am very easy going and like travel, eating out, cinema, pubs, computers and most importantly spending time with the right woman. I love cuddles and hugs and cosy nights in as well as nights out too. I believe i am a nice person and have been told so by many people. I know i am not perfect and never will claim to be. If you are looking for someone who is perfect, then try Jesus. lol I would like to be told what sort of relationship you would like to have. I dont mind if its just fun, friends or ideally a serious long term relationship. I hope to find someone who can be faithful. I do believe in honesty and trust in a BIG way as without this, what is the point??? I would like to find a nice woman to share my life with, good times and bad. I must say to all you ladies out there do take care and be careful, try not to get hurt. I do look forward to hearing from you. If you want to know more, please message me and i will answer you as soon as i can. Ps.Why cant women be honest ???I am a very loving, caring person, who is able to love someone for who they are. I am far from perfect but i WILL show them love and affection BUT i do not wish it to be abused. I know there are some GENUINE women out there. I wont bite unless you want me to. I also sincerely apologise on behalf of the male population as alot of the men out there have hurt, used and abused women. Please dont tar us all with the same brush. xx Also...We all have had problems in our lives, me included. I really dont mind what problems you have as i am the kind of person that would like to work things through as a couple. Life is for living not for losing. Age, race, size, or disibilities should not be a problem. At the end of the day its the person inside that matters most. Anything else is an added bonus. Please if your head needs sorting out, or you are not ready for a relationship, please bide your time until you are ready. I have met some really nice people on here and they have been messed about something chronic. But please if you start a new relationship please leave the hurt in the past and dont let the past ruin your life. I am here to hopefully make a fresh start with the right woman. Children arent baggage either, they are lovely young human beings who want to be loved. The only baggage that should be left behind is the hurt and abuse from past relationships. I am not interested in anyone that just wants a dad for their son or daughter. I want the whole kit and caboodle. Dont get me wrong, if you have children then it isnt a problem. I would always treat them as my own and they would never be treated any different from my own children. So once again after more hurt, lie, deciet, and abuse. I am out fishing again for a woman that can love me for who i am, and that i can love for who they are. And ... hopefully spend the rest of our lives together. I am who and what you see. Lets be open from the start??? I am also after Love, To love someone for better for worse, and i am not looking for material gain. Take care all Love and hugs and kisses Graham X X X X X X