Doctor-Pat

Retired, essentially a happy camper but for missing true lust in my relationship of 18 years...A narcissist is a very difficult person to live with. Too old to start over, but too young to say a little "bit" is enough. Long for the touch and feel of real passion again. I feel I'm one who makes my partner comfortable and happy to be with me. I'm funny quite often, in my "off the cuff" remarks (I never tell "jokes")..I love to please and always ensure you'd be satisfied before myself, and am definitely turned on by "going down" and staying awhile :-). I'm cleanly shaved, no tats (though I don't judge those that have, well, swastikas would be a deal breaker) - I'm basically an old hippy who's never been without a job, and does what needs doing always. I "think?" I'm good looking (slightly greying only).. Not into s/m but don't mind taking control, nor do I mind being taken control of! (Both are sweet in their own way). I do smoke these days a couple of Old Port cigars in a day, usually 4 puffs or so every hour or so, but really easy to go a day without, if the situation requires (priorities hey? ;-) Don't want to write a whole book here, so I'll leave it at that. Hope maybe I'll find that one person out there that I can create a long lasting, though casual personal relationship with. I know that's bad sentence structure too ;-) Get back to me hey?