I don't think my list will be very different from the other girls. We all want these qualities in our men. So I'll just go ahead and write down the most important qualities I would want him to have, I am sorry if these are repeated:
1. Somebody who takes care of himself: Yea, we all know men like to keep it rough. I can absolutely understand what a pain shaving, changing into proper clothes from your boxers or bathing can be, But I would appreciate if once in a while he would take care of himself, wears nice clothes & smells nice.
2. Somebody who knows the importance of health & fitness, but is ready to dive into a giant pudding once in a while : He should know what's good for his health what not, I would want him to perhaps hit the gym a few times a week or play a sport he loves, But I do not want him to be strict as a gym trainer and not enjoy his life at all.
3. Somebody who is mature enough to give me advice when I am confused and dis-oriented, but can also be childish enough to pillow fight: He should be wise and mature, and should be able to bring me back on track when I lose direction, But, should be crazy enough to turn into a kid at times.
4. Somebody who knows what he wants: He should know what he wants from life, personally and professionally and should be determined enough to achieve it. He should be clear-minded and able to make logical and rational decisions when required.
5. Somebody who can make me laugh: You know how they say, If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything! It's true.
6. Somebody who can motivate me: Somebody who can stand by me, support me, motivate me to do better. Somebody who can act like an inspiration in times of need.
7. Somebody who is passionate about at-least one thing in his life: It can be a sport, a career, a hobby. Anything!
8. Somebody who makes efforts: Effort is attractive. It need not be something big, just small gestures of care and affection, that can make me realize how important I am to him.
9. Somebody who listens: Sometimes all a woman wants is somebody who can listen, even though we know you can not deal with our problems for us.
10. Somebody who is not shy of expressing himself: We all know men like to keep it short and simple, but sometimes its important to tell us what you feel, we can not know everything!
11. Somebody who doesn't give up: On people and relationships as well as goals and ambitions. :)
12. Somebody who is loyal: Spoil me with loyalty, I can finance myself! :)
