Here's what I always tell my clients when we're working on their online profiles: If your girlfriend reads your profile and loves it, it probably sucks! Make sure you speak man.” If you don't know how, or need some help, check out my new telecourse Mastering the Mystery of Meeting Men After 40. This is exactly the kind of thing we're going to be doing in Session 4: Casting the Net: Where is He and How Do I find Him? Drew: Thanks so much for stopping by and helping us with your honest advice.
Drew: I'll make it easy with a pre-written format and examples!
Top 10 Reasons Why I Would Be Your Best Girlfriend Ever:
10. You will see me wearing sexy lingerie more than “comfortable” undies.
9. You won't hear me nag and complain because I don't sweat the small stuff.
8. You will be proud to have me on your arm when we go out in public and your friends will probably be envious.
7. You will never, ever compete with me.
6. You will be nicely surprised when I kiss you passionately at unexpected times and in unexpected places.
5. You will never see me roll my eyes at you when you say something because I will respect you.
4. You see my smile far more often than my frown.
3. You will find yourself thinking seriously about my observations on life and current events.
2. You won't be holding my purse at the shoe store. You won't even BE at the shoe store with me.
1. You won't hear these awful words: “I'm not in the mood”.
Note how those sentences are structured. The emphasis is on the guy, not the gal. This kind of list should lead the profile to show what the woman offers in the context of dating and relationships.